Monday. 10:30pm. Child asleep down the hall.
You think about the morning if you were not the one waking them up.
If you died tomorrow, your child finds out without you there to soften it.
The guardian you would actually choose, the allergy list, the comfort routine, the school pickup code, the letter you have always meant to write. None of it should wait on a court order picking the default option.
What only you know
Most households quietly run on one person.
Digital files with child medical histories and prescriptions
The immediate contact information for the preferred standby guardian
The daily schedule, allergy information, and dietary needs
Secure portal login details for the junior savings account
Administrative access for the primary school online noticeboard
Specific location details for physical house keys and legal papers
None of this is in a drawer. None of it is in your partner's phone. It is all in your head.
If you went silent tomorrow
Here is what unravels.
Day 1
The school cannot reach you. They go down the emergency list and ring the wrong person.
Day 3
A prescription is missed. Nobody else knows the pharmacy, the allergy list, or the dose.
Week 2
Routine breaks. The bedtime, the comfort items, the after-school club, all dropped inside a fortnight.
Month 3
A family court decides who raises your child. Your written wishes never reach the bench. A relative you would not have chosen takes them in.
By next month, your partner is firefighting. Not grieving. Firefighting.
How it works
One tap a month. Until the day you stop tapping.
Grace period
30 days to reply
We try email, text, and a phone reminder. You log in once, everything resets.
Alex, friend since uni
Witness 1, confirmed
Priya, family
Witness 2, confirmed
Recipient
Your chosen guardian
That is it. Six pounds a month.
One tap. Two witnesses. Delivery only when both confirm.
What actually happens
Your partner gets exactly what they need.
Medical history, allergies and prescriptions
Daily routine, comfort items, school pickup code
Your written wishes on guardianship for the court
The letter you wrote for your child to read when older
And it is six pounds a month.
Two witnesses have confirmed. Here is what your chosen guardian asked us to share with you.
Open securely
ifyoudie.org/view/...
Take your time. Samaritans 116 123 if you need someone now.
What you actually do
Ten minutes today. One tap a month. That is the whole thing.
- Step 1
Write what your chosen guardian would need
Medical history, allergies, the daily routine, the school pickup code, where the keys and papers are. Short notes work fine.
- Step 2
Name two friends as witnesses
People who know you and your child. If we ever stop hearing from you, we ask them separately to confirm.
- Step 3
One tap a month, that is the whole job
We send one short email a month. You tap once. If you stop tapping, we wait, try again, and only then send the care pack to the guardian you named.
The price
£6 a month.
Less than a gym you don't go to. Cheaper than the streaming bundle you forgot you have.
- Netflix Basic£8 / mo
- A gym membership£35 / mo
- Spotify Premium£11 / mo
- Three coffees£10 / mo
- If You Die£6 / mo
Cancel any time. If you ever do, your messages are wiped within 30 days.
Doing this for the whole household? Family plan, £18/mo for five.
What we never do
Trust is the product. These four lines are why.
We never read your words
No human reads what you write. No AI is trained on it. Encrypted at rest, the honest version.
Two humans must confirm
We do not deliver on a missed email. Two witnesses you named must, separately, attest. No exceptions.
We never sell your data
Not anonymised, not aggregated, not under any future ownership change. It is in the terms in black and white.
We never assume your beliefs
Religion, culture, what you call the people you named. You write the words. We deliver them, unedited.