Tuesday. 9:47pm. Kids asleep.
You catch yourself thinking it again.
If you stopped replying tomorrow, who knows the nursery password?
Photo cloud, banking, school WhatsApp, child benefit. The household runs on accounts that live in one head. Yours.
What only you know
Most households quietly run on one person.
The family photo cloud storage account credentials
The online login for the primary nursery payment portal
The username and password for the child benefit online account
The precise digital location of physical birth certificates
The master PIN numbers for the shared family tablet and smart TV
The access details for the school-run WhatsApp coordination groups
None of this is in a drawer. None of it is in your partner's phone. It is all in your head.
If you went silent tomorrow
Here is what unravels.
Day 1
Your partner tries the nursery app. Wrong password three times. App locks.
Day 3
School WhatsApp goes unread. The class trip slip never gets signed.
Day 7
The photo cloud bill bounces. Five years of photos at risk.
Day 14
Council tax late notice. Nobody knew the login was in your head.
By next month, your partner is firefighting. Not grieving. Firefighting.
How it works
One tap a month. Until the day you stop tapping.
Grace period
30 days to reply
We try email, text, and a phone reminder. You log in once, everything resets.
Alex, friend since uni
Witness 1, confirmed
Priya, family
Witness 2, confirmed
Recipient
Your partner
That is it. Six pounds a month.
One tap. Two witnesses. Delivery only when both confirm.
What actually happens
Your partner gets exactly what they need.
The photo cloud password
The nursery payment login
Where the will is, exactly
Who to ring at the school
And it is six pounds a month.
Two witnesses have confirmed. Here is what your partner asked us to share with you.
Open securely
ifyoudie.org/view/...
Take your time. Samaritans 116 123 if you need someone now.
What you actually do
Ten minutes today. One tap a month. That is the whole thing.
- Step 1
Write what your people would need
Bank logins, the photo cloud password, who pays the nursery, where the will is. Short notes work fine.
- Step 2
Name two friends as witnesses
People who know you and your partner. If we ever stop hearing from you, we ask them, separately, to confirm.
- Step 3
One tap a month, that is the whole job
We send one short email a month. You tap once. If you stop tapping, we wait, try again, and only then start the verified delivery.
The price
£6 a month.
Less than a gym you don't go to. Cheaper than the streaming bundle you forgot you have.
- Netflix Basic£8 / mo
- A gym membership£35 / mo
- Spotify Premium£11 / mo
- Three coffees£10 / mo
- If You Die£6 / mo
Cancel any time. If you ever do, your messages are wiped within 30 days.
Doing this for the whole household? Family plan, £18/mo for five.
What we never do
Trust is the product. These four lines are why.
We never read your words
No human reads what you write. No AI is trained on it. Encrypted at rest, the honest version.
Two humans must confirm
We do not deliver on a missed email. Two witnesses you named must, separately, attest. No exceptions.
We never sell your data
Not anonymised, not aggregated, not under any future ownership change. It is in the terms in black and white.
We never assume your beliefs
Religion, culture, what you call the people you named. You write the words. We deliver them, unedited.