Wednesday. 10:30pm. After the last call to mum.
You catch yourself wondering who would pick up tomorrow.
If you died tomorrow, the person you care for is at risk before anyone notices.
Mum's medication. The carer rota. The pharmacy that knows you by name. The keypad code to the flat. You are the only person who carries it. If you stop, she is alone and unwell, and nobody picks up the thread for days.
What only you know
Most households quietly run on one person.
Login details for regional healthcare booking engines
The specific medication spreadsheet, schedule, and prescription order links
Online customer account codes for private eldercare agencies
Administrative access for parent pension portals
Domestic keypad entry patterns for independent-living homes
Digital copies of active power-of-attorney application files
None of this is in a drawer. None of it is in your partner's phone. It is all in your head.
If you went silent tomorrow
Here is what unravels.
Day 1
The carer arrives. Nobody confirms the visit. Nobody knows the keypad code. She is left at the door.
Day 3
Pharmacy refill not requested. The blood-pressure meds run out by Sunday. She does not know to ask.
Week 1
A GP appointment is missed. The follow-up letter goes to your address. She is at home, unwell, and uncalled.
Week 2
A sibling realises something is wrong and arrives cold. The whole rota has to be rebuilt from scratch while she is in hospital.
By next month, your partner is firefighting. Not grieving. Firefighting.
How it works
One tap a month. Until the day you stop tapping.
Grace period
30 days to reply
We try email, text, and a phone reminder. You log in once, everything resets.
Alex, friend since uni
Witness 1, confirmed
Priya, family
Witness 2, confirmed
Recipient
Your sibling
That is it. Six pounds a month.
One tap. Two witnesses. Delivery only when both confirm.
What actually happens
Your partner gets exactly what they need.
The medication list and pharmacy details
The GP and eldercare-agency logins
Where the power of attorney sits
The keypad code and carer rota
And it is six pounds a month.
Two witnesses have confirmed. Here is what your sibling asked us to share with you.
Open securely
ifyoudie.org/view/...
Take your time. Samaritans 116 123 if you need someone now.
What you actually do
Ten minutes today. One tap a month. That is the whole thing.
- Step 1
Write what your people would need
Medication list, GP login, pharmacy details, the carer rota, where the power of attorney sits. Short notes work fine.
- Step 2
Name two friends as witnesses
People who know you and the family. If we ever stop hearing from you, we ask them, separately, to confirm.
- Step 3
One tap a month, that is the whole job
We send one short email a month. You tap once. If you stop tapping, we wait, try again, and only then send the care notes to the sibling you named.
The price
£6 a month.
Less than a gym you don't go to. Cheaper than the streaming bundle you forgot you have.
- Netflix Basic£8 / mo
- A gym membership£35 / mo
- Spotify Premium£11 / mo
- Three coffees£10 / mo
- If You Die£6 / mo
Cancel any time. If you ever do, your messages are wiped within 30 days.
Doing this for the whole household? Family plan, £18/mo for five.
What we never do
Trust is the product. These four lines are why.
We never read your words
No human reads what you write. No AI is trained on it. Encrypted at rest, the honest version.
Two humans must confirm
We do not deliver on a missed email. Two witnesses you named must, separately, attest. No exceptions.
We never sell your data
Not anonymised, not aggregated, not under any future ownership change. It is in the terms in black and white.
We never assume your beliefs
Religion, culture, what you call the people you named. You write the words. We deliver them, unedited.